Our
family had four precious, pivotal days in Regions Hospital with my dad before
he died. It was a defining moment for us – both as a family unit and as
individuals. During the 10 years since, we have shared many memories of that
time – sweet stories and devastating moments – all in the final watch over our
beloved dad, grandfather, great-grandfather and friend to many. One of the overwhelming messages we received
from the medical team was – pay attention to the process. It seems simplistic,
but that is what those critical days encompassed – we were bystanders, waiting
and watching as the process unfolded. And we will be forever grateful for the
compassion and skilled care of the trauma team who gently cared for my dad, and
all the while helped us prepare to let him go.
And
today, I’m reminded again of the importance of allowing the process to unfold. In
moving through recovery from my condition, I’m beginning to realize progress,
but the process seems slow. I’m ready to be “back to normal” and yet, I’m not
there. It can be frustrating, but at every turn I’m reminded that I have so
much to be grateful for – grateful for caring providers, for a viable treatment
plan and proven medicine - and so grateful for the loving support, encouragement,
prayers and kindness of those around me. It makes all the difference!
Today’s
painting is a reflection of another incredible process – from starting new
gardens in May to watching the garden grow and thrive in this season. August
Beauty, 10” x 13” on 300-lb. cold watercolor paper, captures a happy, white
coneflower, which now in mid-October, is continuing to bloom outside my front
door. What a blessing!